Monday, December 30, 2013

Four Proven Tips on Keeping New Year's Resolutions

We are starting January with a Sermon Series on regaining our spiritual momentum. It is for every person who wants to "Get Back" to a place they have been before. At the same time, lots of people are thinking and talking about new resolutions. Of course, the research on resolutions is discouraging: A study of 3,000 people from the University of Hertfordshire found that 88% broke their resolutions - even people who resolved merely to “enjoy life more” failed 68% of the time. I wanted to pass along some great ideas I read earlier from two brothers who are brilliant writers and researchers in the area of motivation, momentum, and productivity. These four research-based tips to improve your chances of keeping your resolutions were first shared by Chip and Dan Heath. 

1. Look for your bright spots. Psychologists tell us that we are wired to look at the negative. One famous study concluded that, when it comes to the way we think, “bad is stronger than good.” So when it comes to changing our lives, we’ll tend to ask ourselves, “What’s the problem and how do I fix it?” But often we can benefit more by asking a different question: “What’s working and how can I do more of it?” In other words, we can learn from our own “bright spots.” 

2. Make one change at a time. Over the last 15 years, a series of studies in psychology has confirmed a sobering result: Our self-control is exhaustible. The research shows that we burn self-control in many different situations: when controlling our spending; holding in our emotions; managing the impression we’re making on others; resisting temptations; coping with fears; and many, many others. Why is this important? Because any life change will require careful self-monitoring and self-regulation—in other words, self-control. Self-control is the fuel that allows change to succeed, but it is limited. For that reason, you will have a better chance of success if you can focus on one change at a time. If you try to change jobs and exercise routines and relationship habits all at once, you are more likely to stall, because you’ve run out of “fuel.”

3. Turn that one change into a habit. Steve Gladdis of London found that he was constantly falling behind on his personal “to do” list. “Looking at the list on my phone now,” he said, “I need to hang those pictures, phone a friend I haven’t spoken to in a while, extract that box from the back of the shed, investigate child-friendly mousetraps, the list really does go on and on.” He resolved to create a daily routine: Every morning, like clockwork, he’d finish one task. “Once I’m on a roll, it seems easy to carry on. I remember to look at my list for today’s task because I’m used to doing it, and I almost look forward to ticking off that day’s chore,” he said. Habits are effective because, once established, they no longer burn self-control. You’ll be more likely to keep your resolution if you can turn it into a habitual behavior—something that happens in the same time and place on a regular cycle.

4. Set an “action trigger” to start your habit ASAP. What’s the best way to start a habit? It is by using a mental plan an “action trigger.” Action triggers (I will do something at this place or following a regular event) can be surprisingly effective in motivating action. One study found that Physical Therapy patients who used action triggers recovered more than twice as fast as others. Psychologists have compared action triggers to “instant habits” because what they do, in essence, is make our behavior automatic when the trigger moment comes. Seize that power for yourself: Jump-start a new habit by setting an action trigger.

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

God Said Go

   Sunday's worship services, featuring the rhythm of alternating scripture with song, were a welcome change of pace to the driving hustle and bustle that many of us are experiencing beyond the confines of the Sanctuary. Sunday offered music and truth and song and prophecy. I love it when our people literally hear and see the good news on display - the dozens of people who shared their talents embodied that. They were generously sharing from the abundance God has given to them. 
   Those were great moments of worship. But, we are called to live outside the Sanctuary. We are a people who are sent. This was the purpose of the Great Commission in Matthew 28 when Jesus said, "Go...." He said more than that, but one word captures a lot. We are not built to stay put basking in the warm candlelight of even the best moments of worship. Interestingly, the same word is used at the start of Jesus' story. When told of the birth happening just up the hill from their fields and flocks, the shepherds knew they were supposed to, "Go...."
   Our Missions Committee challenges us every month with a different agency or cause in town that is deserving of a portion of our abundance. One of the ways we live out the call to "Go" is through our annual Christmas Offering. Helping our neighbors in great need this Christmas season makes my list of things that are right and good. 
   The Epworth Christmas Offering goes to support three of our key partners in ministry with specific goals in mind: Open Door Community House ($2,000), the Wynnton Neighborhood Network ($1,000), and Brown Bag of Columbus ($1,000), and the total received will be shared among them. If you feel led to give beyond your regular contribution to Epworth, consider making a gift in honor or memory of loved ones, or receive a certificate to give as a present at Christmas. 
   Grace and Peace, Scott

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Music at Christmas

   Jingle Bells, Hark the Herald Angels Sing, Silent Night, and O Holy Night are just a few of the dozens of songs that we have memorized and treasured. From Bing Crosby singing White Christmas to choirs on televisions singing carols in the background while families open presents, for most of us music and Christmas cannot be separated.  
   This is not new. Music has shaped the way we remember and pass along the story of Christmas to little ones. Music also played a prominent part in the actual Christmas story. We immediately think of shepherds watching their fields one night only to be startled by a commotion overhead. The Gospel of Luke goes on to say:
And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host, praising God and saying, "Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace among those whom he favors!" 
- Luke 2:13-14
   But, in the spirit of Advent, it is worth talking about the music that went before Christmas morning. In truth, music played a significant role in preparing others for the coming of God's anointed One into the world. When the angel Gabriel came to a young girl in a forgotten village with news that would change her life and change history, her response was captured in a song. It is known today by the opening word from one of the ancient Latin translations, Magnificat. 
And Mary said, "My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has looked with favor on the lowliness of his servant. Surely, from now on all generations will call me blessed; for the Mighty One has done great things for me, and holy is his name. 
- Luke 1:46-49
Mary's song here reminds me that sometimes music captures best the intentions and desires of my soul. 
   As Christmas approaches, what songs do you cherish? What parts of the story do you know best because of the songs you have memorized (verses about a red-nosed reindeer are not what I have in mind)? 
   Epworth keeps the tradition of music preparing us for the great celebration of Christmas going this weekend with our Service of Lessons and Carols. You will be delighted by nine passages of scripture that are followed by nine carols and songs of the season. You will not want to miss worship this weekend. And, of course, our Christmas Eve services on December 24 at 4:00 and 6:00 PM are such blessed times for your family and mine. I hope to see you soon and see you singing. 
   Grace and Peace, Scott

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Christmas {Jesus}. All Year {Jesus}.

   The church’s new year, underway this week with the start of the Advent Season, began with the prophet Isaiah shining light into a dark world. Before there was a baby that first Christmas, there was a world longing for a Savior. The message from Isaiah 2 is still true today: Every generation needs assurance that the powers of this world (Assyrian, Roman, or modern) do not determine the future.
   Who does?
Prince of Peace, by Akiane at the age of 8
   Paul writes to the church in Ephesus that there is One who is in charge of the future. Paul claims to know who the One is. He uses a compound word, anakephalaĆ­omai in the original Greek, to describe how this is happening. It literally means recapitulate, but Paul reworks it to say that this One he is talking about is the organizing center, causing all the parts to work together in harmony. Read it in Ephesians 1:8-10. Paul says that Jesus of Narazeth, who is the Christ (christos was an ancient word for Lord), is the One.
   This was a bold claim then. It is just as bold a claim now. Jesus is Lord over the future.
   Christmas is about Jesus. When we pull away all of the other distractions that would cover up the story underneath, Christmas is about God’s love breaking into the world that the world might be saved. God changed the trajectory of history.
   I want Epworth to spend more than just this Christmas season talking about and searching for Jesus. I want 2014 to be about Jesus. I want more Jesus in our teachings, our songs, our lessons with children. When our lives together are summed up, I want the tally to be Jesus. I believe the world needs more Jesus. I think we do, too.
   I am excited that the new year is here and excited we can choose to pursue the One who holds the whole word in his hands.
   I offer for you to join in praying with Paul from Ephesians 1: I pray that the eyes of your heart
may be enlightened, so that you may know what is the hope of His calling, what are the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, and what is the surpassing greatness of His power toward us who believe. These are in accordance with the working of the strength of His might which He brought about in Christ, when He raised Him from the dead, and seated Him at His right hand in the heavenly places, far above all rule and authority and power and dominion, and every name that is named, not only in this age, but also in the one to come. 
   Grace and Peace, Scott

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

What determines history? Lincoln, JFK, and Us

   The passage of even a few decades makes such a difference in history. I remember hearing, some years back, that the letters first included in the New Testament were not originally written with a thought that they would become sacred Scripture. At the time they were written, they served a more narrow focus: to instruct and encourage specific, local house churches. However, the passage of time changes how things are remembered.
   The Gospel writers, just three or four decades after Paul was writing those first letters, seemed to have a grasp that they were collecting and compiling the good news of Jesus in a way that would be kept. Luke opens with, "I too decided, after investigating everything carefully from the very first, to write an orderly account for you...so that you may know the truth concerning the things about which you have been instructed." See Luke 1. John's Gospel closes with a note reminding readers that not all of the stories of Jesus were included, because there were too many to include. 
   Seven score and ten years ago this week, Abraham Lincoln scribbled notes onto a page in order that he might deliver a minor speech at the dedication of the cemetery where soldiers had been laid to rest in Gettysburg. On November 19, 1863, President Lincoln spoke for only a few minutes and, with a "few appropriate remarks", he was able to summarize the war in just ten sentences. From what I've read, he did not intend to make history. He even says, "The world will little note, nor long remember what we say here." Yet, those very words are still committed to memory and cherished as one of the great intersections of l literature and history in our nation's annals. 
   Tragically, one century would pass and another moment of history would be marked within days. This time, the actions were certainly intended to be noticed and to be remembered. The assassination of John F. Kennedy in Dallas on November 22, 1963 was a national tragedy, though not everyone immediately perceived it as such. My mother shared with me that she remembers students in the segregated school cafeteria in Tifton, Georgia cheering when the announcement was made on that Friday afternoon. Apparently his Catholic faith was not embraced, nor was the fact that he became the first president to call on all Americans to denounce racism as morally wrong in an address earlier that year. I have to believe the kids in that lunchroom only heralded the blind stupidity of their parents and culture. 
   The passing of these historic anniversaries in the same week gives me reason to pause and consider the words I speak and the actions I take. We rarely, if ever, act with history in mind. Both of the events marked this week started on otherwise ordinary days. Yet, the trajectory of our country has been altered. We have this same power. It is most often exercised on ordinary days. We can change the trajectories of lives with words and actions. In our own, small way, we help determine history with our lives. May we choose wisely and with grace. 

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

We Have to Speak Louder: God Loves You

  I found myself having to talk a little louder. At first, I did not think much of it. But, as each new person came forward and I leaned in to share the words that God has been speaking into my heart, I began to realize how loud I needed to speak in order to be heard. 
   Music in worship was great - the choir was great and the congregational singing was great. It was not Andy’s fault that he was singing while I was trying to impart a good word. It was awesome, actually. During the 11:00 AM worship service Andy sang a song written by Phil Wickham that he chose especially for All Saints Sunday, a new song literally just released seven weeks ago. As Andy sang the words of a song about hope, to all of us who had just heard the names of men and women we knew and loved to mark their passing this year, it was all coming together. The chorus says:
There is hope beyond the suffering,
joy beyond the tears, peace in every tragedy
and love that conquers fear. For I have found redemption
in the blood of Jesus Christ.
My body might be tired but I’ll always be alive.
(Phil Wickham, When My Heart s Torn Asunder, 2013)
   On Sunday, as we stood sharing the everyday elements that Jesus himself consecrated with divine meaning, I told people, “God loves you.” As the music played, the reality sank in that in order to be heard I would need to say it louder. “God loves you.” Even before we finished passing out the grace-filled pieces of bread, then dipped into the cup that represents a new covenant with the Creator of the Universe, my eyes had been opened to what was happening.
   We live in a noisy world. We have a message to deliver. Our mandate is to offer it to every person. We are called to speak into the lives of others, “God loves you.” It was out of love that Jesus took the form of a servant and emptied himself, even to the point of death at the hands of his executioners. 
   I read the names of our honored dead on Sunday only by steeling myself from the emotions I felt welling up when I started. I knew these people. These are more than names. These were friends, mentors, and loved ones. It was altogether right to name them as saints, because they are. Not because of their own efforts, but because of the efforts of the One who makes things holy. 
   I pray that I would boldly speak the good news to every person I meet with whatever volume is required for it to be heard, and not just on Sunday mornings. “God loves you.” I pray you would do the same.
   Grace and Peace, Scott

A New Home of the Brave? Or Something Else?

My friend Luke Martin said, "If the Braves want to move to a new stadium, that's their business." Live and let live. 

I agree, but I'd go further. We're all citizens of the same planet. The rest of the story around the decision announced yesterday by the Atlanta Braves to abandon their 'home' at Turner Field and build another one 15 miles away in the suburbs makes me wonder about the other reasons that did not make it into the surprise announcement. My thoughts keep bumping into more than just the empty stadium left behind, or the memories that have been made on the two blocks the Braves have occupied since moving South from Milwaukee in '66. 

First, the Braves are free to do whatever they want as a private company. But, this move is not really that of a private company. While their initial press conference did not reveal the numbers, the AJC has since published that $450 million of the $650 million for the new project will come from public (tax-payer) money. Over two-thirds of the cost will come from the public. Yet, the public seems to have been left out of the conversation, save the representatives in government who will boldly try and sell this to their constituents at a later date. That might be a hard sell considering the chatter from Cobb County citizenry yesterday who talked of current local government-worker layoffs and teacher furloughs to make the County budget work out. Again, it seems the parties involved really did have an obligation to seek public input. 

Second, and more troublesome than the rest, seems to be something that I want to resist naming. This seems to be more about who buys the tickets and where they do and don't want to park their cars. The evidence of that comes in the few images that the Braves offered for reasons. One included a map of where ticket buyers are from. Of course, you'll make the drive closer for the north Atlanta crowd, but is there something else going on, too? At the new website to communicate information about the move, homeofthebraves.com, the Braves referenced lack of control over the development of the area surrounding their current home, Turner Field. This is about business, I know, but could it be as much about the sadder side of human nature? The new trend for modern ballparks is to surround them with other entertainment, restaurants, and something people call 'feeling safe'. The thing is, Turner Field and the main parking lots are safe. As safe as the neighborhoods we live in. Yet, there remains a resistance to attending downtown events because of perceived threats. These threats continue to pop up in the conversations around the respective homes of Braves and Falcons. This seems like white flight from downtown Atlanta. 

Finally, there is nothing wrong with the current experience of a fan at Turner Field. The sight-lines are great, and you can even get waffles while watching the game! Yet, we throw away good things that are not used up in order to get something better, don't we? It leads to eyesore junk moved to landfills and higher debt for American households, while never addressing the real cause of the discontent. People would rather spend money on buying something new than on fixing up something that is already there. People like new. It's the human condition. I just don't think it's right. The Braves say that Turner Field currently needs $150 million in infrastructure work (including seat replacement, upgrades to the lighting, etc.), none of which would significantly enhance the fan experience. If the Braves were to pay for additional projects focused on improving the fan experience, the additional costs would exceed $200 million. Instead they will spend the same amount of their own money, and borrow a half a billion from Cobb taxpayers, to build something new. 

An article appears in today's New York Times by Frank Bruni about how every segment of America is becoming tiered around the ability to pay for perks and space. He calls this the "Extra Legroom Society." Read it here at: http://www.nytimes.com/2013/11/12/opinion/bruni-the-extra-legroom-society.html?nl=todaysheadlines&emc=edit_th_20131112. The Braves are choosing keep up with the trend.

Has anyone else considered how well the Braves kept this from the public and media until the day of the Press Conference? Why? Fear that public discourse would keep them from achieving their agenda? In the end, I will go to the new stadium to see the Braves play. I've been to Braves' games downtown every year since 1980, as best I can recall. Right now, I just don't love the idea, or the underlying causes for the move.

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

What you talk about says a lot about what you believe

   What do you talk about? To what topics do your conversations most return? What do you brag about? The Apostle Paul writes in Ephesians 5 that, “For once you were darkness, but now in the Lord you are light. Live as children of light.” He goes on to say that being children of light should even affect what we talk about. To be light-bearers, literally those who carry the good news of what God has done and is doing in the world, means that every facet of our lives is impacted. To live as children of light affects where we go, on what we spend our money and what we talk about. 
   Can someone be sure of what you believe in based on the content of your talk? The answer is a resounding, yes. The real question is, are you content that what they hear is who you really are?
   I am talking up one of the great stories of change, goodness and success that is happening in Columbus. I said, “Yes,” last month to be a public, online champion for Open Door Community House for the upcoming Georgia Gives Day on November 13. Along with the donations that can be generated, Open Door can win additional matching funds to continue the great work they are doing. What great work you ask? Let me talk about it:

  • On average, our neighbors participating in the ‘Circles in Columbus’ program have seen an 85% increase in income after just one year. In addition, their debt is down and their dependence on public assistance is down. That is success!
  • The average income earned by Open Door Institute graduates, learning culinary skills, increased by $6/hr from when they entered the program.
  • In 2012-2013, 100% of the children in our Mathews Promise Academy were promoted to the next grade and 100% passed the state CRCT exam.

These facts speak volumes, don’t they? Open Door is the single most important ministry in Columbus, addressing the root causes of poverty and suffering among our neighbors. They are teaching people with great content and delivering it through deep and sustained relationships; this is the best way to change lives and it is the secret to long-term success. I am honored to talk about that kind of ministry, and especially proud to know it was began through the efforts of those we know from the Hamp Stevens Memorial UMC.
   I hope you will join me in going online next Wednesday, November 13, and make a donation of any amount to support a great ministry. Then go a step further and tell someone about Open Door. Let’s show that our talk and our hearts are the same.  
Grace and Peace, Scott

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Giving Thanks Throughout

We remember and give thanks.

That’s what we do in the church. We remember … and we give thanks. We remember the story, from before time was kept through our own time and forward still, and we give thanks. We remember the story of Jesus Christ - who lived and loved and showed us how to love - and we remember the gift of the Holy Spirit that gave birth to Christ's church and are thankful we can be a part of God's ongoing work.

We remember and give thanks.

On Sunday, November 3, our remembering and thanksgiving prompts a response. On Consecration Sunday, we submit Estimate of Giving cards as our humble way of remembering what God has done and trusting in what God will do. This is the stuff of faith. I encourage you to read Hebrews 11:1 through 12:3 (here is a link). I've been blessed to share biblical wisdom about trusting God with money and possessions in the teachings these past four weeks. One note: while there is no lunch served this year, we are offering fruit and pastries served in the Fellowship Hall. 

We remember and give thanks.

On November 10, All Saints Sunday, we will remember how the ministry we share now was embraced and lived by generations before us. We will remember by name those of our church family here at Epworth who in the past year entered into the Communion of Saints. Names will be read, candles lit, lives honored, and holy memories stirred. We cannot begin to capture the fullness of their lives, but we can recall their place in our congregation and the ministry we carry on from them. And, no doubt, our minds will turn to others who touched our lives with God’s grace and showed us the way of faithful living. Finally, before our service is done, we will remember the words of Jesus, who said, “Do this in remembrance of me,” and together we will share in the sacrament of Holy Communion. 

We remember and give thanks.

On the evening of November 24, we welcome the people and clergy of the churches and synagogues who are members of the Wynnton Neighborhood Network for the Thanksgiving Unity Service. It is a rich hour of worship that features participation and leadership from each congregation, and we will be blessed to serve as host for the night. Our preacher will be the Rev. Wayland Conner, from Allen Temple AME, which hosted the service a year ago. 

We remember and give thanks. May we be changed for the better by it. Grace and Peace, Scott

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Seeing It Written Down Helps Me

   I am a visual learner. Many folks are like me, in this regard. I often imagine ideas or concepts drawn out on a whiteboard in my mind and, if you've ever been in a meeting with me, you know I often gravitate to a board to make lists or connect the dots. So, I won't to circle back to some of the content from Sunday so people can see it written out. Consider these Three Keys to Cultivating Contentment
1) Ask about a possible purchase: “For How Long Will This Make Me Happy?”
2) Develop a Grateful Heart in All Things
3) Return to the Question: Where Does My Soul Find True Satisfaction?
   In addition to cultivating contentment in our lives, we need to cultivate simplicity. Contentment and simplicity go hand in hand. So I talked about these Five Steps for Simplifying Our Lives
1) Set a Goal of Reducing Your Consumption, and Live Below Your Means.
2) Before a Purchase Ask Yourself, “Do I Really Need This? & Why Do I Want This?”
3) Use Something Up Before Buying Something New
4) Plan Low-cost Entertainment That Enriches

5) Ask Yourself, “Are There Major Changes That Would Allow Me to Simplify My Life?”
   This Sunday we take one more step asking, "What defines your life? Is it wealth? Belongings? Faith?" Many of us live with a scarcity mentality, worried that we must gather and hoard as much as possible, saving for some imagined “rainy day.” Or we focus on self-gratification: spend it right now. But, the Bible promises both God’s blessings and joy for those who choose to live another way. During this coming Sunday’s service, we will take action to change our lives by setting five specific personal goals to work toward over the next year. We invite you to complete a Personal Goals and Commitment card and place it in your Bible for your personal reference in the coming year. Seeing it written down helps!
   One of these five commitments is your estimate of giving for the coming year. This week, you will be receiving an estimate of giving commitment card in the mail. On a practical level, we ask our members to turn in estimate of giving cards each year so that our Finance Committee is able to set an accurate ministry budget for the coming year. This helps us be good stewards. On a personal level, the commitment card is an opportunity for you to spend time in prayer and reflection, considering what offering you would make to God through our church in the coming year. Please be watching for the mailing next week, then fill out the card and bring it with you to worship next Sunday. You will also be able to pledge online at epworthumc.com.
   Grace and Peace, Scott

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

I Don't Know It All But What I Do Know I Learned From Someone Else

David Bartlett, PhD
   My professor for these two weeks in Decatur is David Bartlett, well-published and brilliant professor of Preaching and the New Testament. Now retired, he is a beloved teacher.  While this is my first class with him, I can see why some have taken him over and over again. He knows his stuff.
   He does two things I like very much. First, for as much as he knows, he also talks about what he doesn't know. Our course is on Christology, the study of the meaning and the work of Jesus. Bartlett does not claim to know it all. He reminds us that we don't know what New Testament authors were thinking when they chose this word over that one. We only have the words, not the thoughts behind them. So we can be sure of some things, but not sure of others. I like that.
   Secondly, I really appreciate how Dr. Bartlett talks about the scholars and writers who have contributed to this particular topic within Christian studies over the past century. He will make reference to a writer and then very often mention the persons that they learned from. It is like he can visualize the various scholastic family trees that are at play. He sort of plays 'six degrees of separation', but tracing appearances back to Karl Barth and not Kevin Bacon (for those who get that reference). 
   I want to be known as somone who does not think they know it all and also as someone who appreciates how we are all connected. I was reminded this week of how often the Apostle Paul referred to the tradition that he passed on to the churches he was starting in the first two to three decades after the Resurrection of Christ. Paul tells the church in Corinth, on a couple of occassions, that he is passing on what he received (see 1 Corinthians 11 and 15). He reminds Timothy of the generations of faith that Timothy followed and encourages him to continue to fan that flame so it would spread (2 Timothy 1).  
   The world desperately needs to be engaged with the truth. Our call as followers of Christ is to give witness to, through our words and actions, the truth of the love God in our lives. But, along with what we know, the world would love to hear that we don't know it all. Because we don't.
   Grace and Peace, Scott 

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

He Leadeth Us, He Leadeth Me

He leadeth me: O blessed thought! O words with heavenly comfort fraught!
Whate'er I do, where'er I be, still 'tis God's hand that leadeth me.  

   We picked the hymn for worship during Wednesday's Charge Conference from a list of great, traditional hymns that we sing in both our blended and traditional services. We sing great music. Music stirs our souls, and centers our vision. Joseph Gilmore's words from 1862 do just that. 
   My first thought is that the words to He Leadeth Me are more hoping than they are knowing. Too often it is not God who is leading. Too often, we are led by our own desires and base inclinations. My report would be remiss if I did not start there. 
   I have been slow in addressing some areas that need attention. We need to start our process for formally discerning God's vision; we need to pray and seek the words and images that capture the unique answer to the question of what does it mean to be Epworth. I have been able to ignite a sustainable emphasis in improving the efforts of our Sunday School classes in key areas. We need to be more intentional in inviting people who are not involved, to continually improve on our methods of teaching in engaging ways, to give engage in class-oriented, hands-on mission projects, and to take on the truth that our Sunday School groups are the central and best way people are connected in relationships in our church. These thing happen some, but not enough. 
   Yet, God works for good in spite of my faults. God works for good in the midst of my shortcomings. God is working for good, even now, in the midst of all of the things that our church people seem to be juggling at once. And, there are many things. God can do this because this is the way the world works. Through the power of Christ, delivered through the Holy Spirit, we become the hands and feet of the One true God. We re-present God to every person when we are in ministry. I am reminded of this through the words of affirmation that arrive throughout the year in response to the kindness shown by Epworth people. Our witness is being extended beyond just the scope of our families and our circumstances, and out in the community everyday. We are engaged in missions that call on the hands, the talents and gifts, and the monies of our people to care for the least of these around Columbus (Matthew 25). Our people, members and regular attenders, shine the very light and love of God into people's lives. It happens through our amazing ORANGE ministry with children and families, through our neighborhood-oriented events that attracts hundreds, through our ministry of hospitality with families around funerals, and through our people at work and play around town. Also, our buildings continue to see small projects accomplished have been leaps forward in how we welcome people in style. 
   Lately, the Spirit had brought me to a deep peace and assurance in knowing that there is more going on. Our ministry is more than our best or our worst. This is true in my life, too. The truth is God is leading us. This is not just a song wishing it were true. It is true. God is working in our midst. Some of our plans have not happened as quickly as I have wished. The plan to acquire property on Manchester Expressway has been stymied by things out of our control. But, God is leading. Our intention to expand parking, long overdue, is still months from completion. But, God is faithful. Offerings are lagging behind where people pledged they would be. But, we still have enough to thrive on. 
   I am so blessed to serve in the midst of God's great work through the people of Epworth. I am humbled at how supportive this congregation is, in my best and in the rest of my efforts! You care for me and for my family. You are helping Julie and me to raise our boys in a place where disciples of Jesus are on display. In addition, Epworth allows me to work every day alongside the best staff and get away a few days a year to pursue a great education in my Doctoral studies. For all of this, I say thank you.
   Grace and Peace, Scott

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Build A Church That Builds Others Up

   I cherish my first remembrances of church. I remember the church, the classrooms in 
Statesboro where I attended Sunday School, from early years through high school. I remember the churches my grandfather served that we would visit on weekends and worshiping in the little Baptist church where my father grew up in Newington when we spent the day with his mother, Elise. But, something is missing. The truth is, each of those churches gave me more than I could ever return to them. They shaped me, in small and not-small ways, into the child of God I am today. These churches were established long before I came around.
   The relationship between Janet Cheraisi and the church she grew up in is a little different, though. For all that they have given her and for all of the goodness that she carries because of their efforts to raise her well, she is giving back. Samuel and Janet grew up in different parts of Kenya. They were raised in newly-started local churches that were a part of the African Island Church denomination, started by an American missionary, Peter Scott, back in 1895 (www.aickenya.org). They did not meet until they were both running track for colleges here in the US. As students at Southern Miss, Janet and Samuel became United Methodist members. Soon after she graduated, Janet started helping the church with its greatest need - more space. 
   The church Janet grew up in is not large enough. The witness of the people and the work of God in the area have reached more people than the little sanctuary will hold. It means members must stand outside during worship. So, Janet and Samuel have been helping her childhood church build a bigger sanctuary. As of this fall, the building is now in its final stages as they try to finish by next summer. Samuel visited the church recently on a trip back home and carried with him a little note of encouragement I sent to them. 
   Our core mission partners for the past two years have been local - Open Door, Wynnton 
Neighborhood Network, Rose Hill, Allen Elementary. This month we are asking that your gifts beyond our local ministry go to help Janet leave a mark on the place that has left its mark on her. The news of the terrorist attack in a public mall in Kenya last month could not have been more revealing. Kenya is in the midst of spiritual battle. Christians need all the help they can get to continue expanding the footprint of peace that God so desperately wants to win over His people.
   I want to be a part of a church that builds people up. Grace and Peace, Scott

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Money and Possessions: I Often Do Not Do What I Know To Do

   “O Lord Jesus Christ, Son of the Living God, have mercy on me, a sinner. I am impressed by my own spiritual insights. I probably know more about prayer, meditation and contemplation than most Christians do. I have read many books about the Christian life, and have even written a few myself. Still, as impressed as I am, I am more impressed by the enormous abyss between my insights and my life. 
   It seems as if I am standing on one side of a huge canyon and see how I should grow toward you, live in your presence and serve you, but cannot reach the other side of the canyon where you are. I can speak and write, preach and argue about the beauty and goodness of the life I see on the other side, but how, O Lord, can I get there? Sometimes I even have the painful feeling that the clearer the vision, the more aware I am of the depth of the canyon. 
   Am I doomed to die on the wrong side of the abyss? .... Come, Lord Jesus, come. Have mercy on me, a sinner. Amen.”
Henri Nouwen - A Cry for Mercy

   One of the great modern writers in the field of humanity and Christian devotion, Nouwen is bearing his soul to us. What he reveals is the human condition. Note the emphasis I added above - there is an enormous abyss between what we know and what we do. The Apostle Paul said as much in Romans 7:15,19:
I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate....For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I do. 
   If Nouwen and Paul were broadly applying this to behaviors in their own lives, then certainly such truths apply to our behaviors. For many of us, no area is captured so well by these frustrating admissions than that of money and finances. We know what is right, but we often do the opposite. Or, we want to do what is right but don’t know what is right for each instance.
   We begin a series of teachings this weekend, lasting five brief weeks, that delve deeply into financial problems and wise solutions. This will be Practical Teaching and Inspiring Challenges. I pray every person will make his/her way to worship (or listen online if you’re out of town). 
   Grace and Peace, Scott

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

History Repeats Itself

   "In the year of our Lord, 1901, in the old car barn on Second Avenue, now the Home Theatre, there was a prayer meeting started on Sunday afternoon which continued to hold its meetings for about a year. On the First Sunday of November 1902, the prayer meeting was organized into a church.... This was done about two weeks before the South Georgia Conference." So goes the best early history of the church started in Bibb City over a century ago, as recorded by C. Rush in 1930. 
  Given the name North Highland, the church was grouped with the Pearce Chapel congregation to make up a two point circuit. Just a few short months later, a move was made to build a church. A "Lot Committee" was formed to investigate the best location within the newly surveyed section of North Highland, and they settled on two lots on the corner of Third Avenue and Thirty-First Street because they figured it would be at the center of the industrial community that was in the works. Soon after they acquired the used tabernacle structure that St. Luke Methodist no longer needed, and in 1906 the people built the first church building. In the 1909 Conference, the Rev. Hamp Stevens was sent to serve the now stand-alone church in the growing section of Columbus. He served for four years and "was a man that every one loved." He was moved for two years [at this point in Methodist history serving a church for any length over one year was rare and considered a very long appointment] but was returned in 1915 and served another seven. After moving to serve Richland for a year, he retired in 1923 and died in 1924. But, during the eleven years he served, the mutual love between he and the church, and the growth that happened, prompted the church in 1926, at the dedication of the newest Sanctuary building, to rename itself in honor of its most beloved pastor. 
Hamp Stevens UMC
   This early history of the Hamp Stevens Memorial Methodist Church seems ancient when compared to our lives. Only names and dates remain from the real stories of the Spirit's inspiration and vision that was caught to serve a new neighborhood and the families that would soon call it home. But, the history of Hamp Stevens has become the history of Epworth, and interestingly they are similar in many ways. Columbus was growing and a new neighborhood was being built. Local church leaders, men and women, felt led to build a place that would become a spiritual home to worship, fellowship, and grow in. Whether it was 1902 or 1960, our stories are very similar. 
Epworth UMC
   We gather on Homecoming to celebrate the same Spirit that continues to inspire us to worship and grow. We are given power to change our community and shape the lives of young and old, alike. May the simple act of remembering give us a renewed sense of what it means to be church together. Grace and Peace, Scott

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Enough: Discovering Joy Through Simplicity and Generosity

      Stress. Anxiety. Fear. These words capture well the state of mind of many of us. We have witnessed the market move down and up, the collapse of the world’s largest insurance company, and more bankruptcies and mergers than we can remember. Practically every story in the news is now, somehow, connected to economic uncertainty. But it is deeper than the news. One survey found that over three in four Americans are stressed about their personal finances and the economy. Half were worried about providing for their family’s basic needs. Over half of respondents reported feeling angry and irritable, and reported that is affected their ability to sleep. The report concludes that, “The declining state of the nation’s economy is taking a physical and emotional toll on people nationwide.”
We can live better. So, we are inviting you to join us in worship starting on September 29 for a sermon series entitled Enough: Discovering Joy Through Simplicity and Generosity. Increasing consumer debt, declines in savings, lower income growth, and a volatile stock market are all a part of our economic insecurity. But there is more to it. We live in a society that tells us “you deserve it now,” whether or not we can afford it or really even need it.
All of us have struggled with these issues at one time or another. They are important issues that we cannot ignore. This is why we will feel compelled to offer this emphasis in worship.Enough: Discovering Joy Through Simplicity and Generosity is adapted from a book by the Rev. Adam Hamilton, a UM pastor in Kansas City. We will explore what the Bible teaches us about financial management. We’ll hear expert advice and stories about what others have learned by working through financial challenges. Each week we will provide you with some practical tools you can use to assess your financial situation and develop a financial plan with a biblical foundation.
At the conclusion of the emphasis and practical wisdom, we will have the opportunity to make personal commitments of our offerings to God through our church in the coming year. We will consecrate these commitments in the worship services on Sunday, November 3. I hope you will join us in the coming weeks as we look at how we can manage our financial resources and truly experience simplicity, generosity, and joy. Here is the schedule for worship, starting the week after Homecoming:
Sept 29     Faith in the Midst of Financial Crisis
Oct 6         When Dreams Become Nightmares
Oct 13       Wisdom and Finance
Oct 20       Cultivating Contentment
Oct 27       Defined by Generosity
Nov 3         Consecration Sunday

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Let us pray...

   Proverbs 29:18 says, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” It speaks to the need for leaders to envision the future and connects dreaming and visioning with life. Yet, local church leaders face challenges and obstacles to dreaming. 
   I believe that many leaders struggle to dream about the future in a hopeful manner when the prevailing narrative surrounding the life of the modern church is one of decline and despair. But the obstacles don’t stop there. Despite being convinced that Epworth’s next, best step is for a small group of leaders and representatives to embark on a vision-seeking journey...I have been slowed by questions of who, how and when. 
   We call Pentecost the birth day of the church. But, before this day of visions and bold declarations could happen, significant factors in the personal lives and communal life of the disciples came together. The disciples overcame fear, came together in prayer, spent time patiently waiting for God’s direction and studied the Scriptures. A way forward opened up after leaders prayed.
   So, last week I asked our Church Council to begin praying. Adapting two different little prayers from the United Methodist Book of Worship, I offered this prayer as a guide for our combined efforts. I am asking you to join us. 
   On September 25, 1960, 49 people gathered in a little home in the newly-built Winchester neighborhood to start a new church.  It did not happen without prayers and pulling together. I believe our next 53 years depend, in part, on the vision we capture for the coming season of ministry together. Let us pray.... 
   Grace and Peace, Scott

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

We Accept This Sacred Trust

   Another prayer shawl, made with loving hands by gifted persons in the Epworth community, waits in my office to be picked up and delivered. They go to persons celebrating and those mourning. They go to those who are recovering from surgeries or welcoming babies or in need of the simple reminder that people care and that God's love overcomes whatever life throws at us.
   In between their creation and their use, the prayer shawls receive a word of prayer. Every one that has been delivered - each with a little tag that indicates it is from Epworth along with a prayer designed for the person receiving it - has been prayed over. But, I have to admit, I did not know exactly what words I'd use when I was first asked a couple of years ago to consecrate the first prayer shawls. I went to the United Methodist Book of Worship and did not find anything at first, until I stumbled upon a brief service called An Order for the Dedication of Church Furnishings and Memorials. Now the title of such words might deceive you as to their relevance, but listen to the liturgy:

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit I consecrate these prayer shawls to the glory of Almighty God and for service by this church. Let us pray: Most loving God, without you no words or works of ours have meaning. Accept the gifts of our hands as symbols of our devotion. Grant us your blessing, as we have consecrated these gifts to your glory, that they may be an enduring witness before all your people, and that our lives may be consecrated in your service;
through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

   There is a response that I don't always read that comes in the middle of this service. It says, "We accept this gift as a sacred trust and will guard and use it reverently." That line strikes me: these words are universal. These words could (and should) be applied to just about everything we do. These children in our classrooms, on our playgrounds, and in our hallways are a part of a scared trust that we have with their families, but also with God. The monies we receive on Sunday are a sacred trust. The buildings and classrooms we occupy are to be used for the glory of God in the best possible ways to shine the light of Jesus into the lives of God's children (of every age). None of this is ours. Everything is a gift and a sacred trust. Surely this is why Jesus gave such stern warning to those who would violate this sense of stewardship (see Matthew 18:1-7).
   I hold firmly to the belief that this sacred trust is not limited to our leaders or parents or direct participants of a class or program or shawl. We are all recipients of this sacred trust. This is what it means to be Epworth, to be Christian, to be Human. Grace and Peace, Scott

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Happening Right Now On Your Pew

   We gather, sing, pray, and have the Word of God read and preached for our benefit. Then, when all of that is done, the offering comes up in our order of worship as one way we respond to God. For us, we literally offer our gifts back to God that his kingdom might come through our efforts. This is the historic order for Christian worship - though some churches arrange things differently. 
   This Sunday, I walked down during the Doxology to receive the plates - holding these acts of faith in what we can do together with God's help - and present them before the Altar. At the last moment, one more donation was passed over to the ushers from the first row. Afterwards, standing near the front as everyone started to sing the closing hymn, I saw the two young men, both serving as acolytes for only their second times, whisper something between themselves. The younger one leaned over to say, "Thank you." He was thanking the other for helping him get his offering included. 
   I was struck by how honest and humble such small gestures on both of their parts really were. For the one who was thankful for the aid, what a grown-up ability to offer appreciation. For the other who lent a hand, what a model for how we live in Christ.
   I think this is happening on every pew. We are all helping each other out.
   Watching these two young men makes me think, Julie and I should be saying "Thank you" for helping our offerings get to the altar. When you think about it, our contributions are made better with your help. Combined with yours, they go farther, help more, and are spread more broadly. Not only that, but people in every pew are helping to spend our contributions better than we could on our own. From serving in leadership and deciding where to spend as good stewards, to participating on the front line in missions that happen through our combined efforts, we are better together.
   Paul described the church this way in 1 Corinthians 12:
If all were a single member, where would the body be? As it is, there are many members, yet one body. The eye cannot say to the hand, "I have no need of you," nor again the head to the feet, "I have no need of you".... But God has so arranged the body, giving the greater honor to the inferior member, that there may be no dissension within the body, but the members may have the same care for one another. 
   I think this is happening on every pew. We are all helping each other out. Our pews are filled with the common, the extraordinary, the loved, the struggling, the hopeful, the doubting. The truth is that we are each of these things over time. But, what we bring to the altar and God's efforts is made better because of each other. And for that, we should all say, "Thank you." 
   Out of the mouths of babes... Peace, Scott

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

What We Choose to Remember and Forget

  I cannot remember things the way I used to. I, also, do not remember things the way I used to. 
  How many of us used to keep dozens of phone numbers in our heads? Of course, phone numbers were shorter when I was growing up (only seven digits) and were even shorter before I was born. But, it is not just that numbers are longer. We don’t have to remember them now because devices, other than our brains, have been introduced to remember them for us, namely our phones or tablets or notebooks. The world is changing the way we remember things. 
  There does remain some things that many of us don’t have any trouble remembering. We can hold on to them for years, decades, a lifetime, even. It is in our nature to hold on to a record of those who have wronged us. Even when apologies have been exchanged, we struggle so very much to let go. We cannot blame new technology on this truth: we are not good at forgiving and letting go. 
  I ran across this little poem that my grandfather Carlton clipped and passed on to our family’s newest pastors for our own ministries of preaching and teaching in South Georgia Methodist churches. Truth be told, this one is helpful for my own life and not just what I preach to others! We need to forget some things and remember others. 
  I am very excited about our series of teaching that begins this weekend in worship, at both our 9:00 AM Blended and 11:00 Traditional services. It’s called “Forgiveness: Letting Go to Find Peace.” I have a feeling you need to be here. Grace and Peace, Scott

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

What Is Your Cold Water?

   I don't like jumping into cold water. I don't even like jumping into lukewarm water. A hundred people, already frolicking in the pool or lake or ocean, can tell me that the temperature is fine after you get in, but such truths means nothing to the voice inside that says otherwise about that initial shock to my skin.
   The other day I stood at the gate on the pontoon boat for upwards of five minutes. I really don't like jumping in cold water. The boys were playing a little distance away in the calm waters of Lake Oliver, but I stood on the boat trying to overcome some inner push that said, "Don't do it." Finally, someone asked what was I doing. My reply was simple, "I just have to jump in." I jumped in within a few seconds after the words left my mouth, but not before this bulletin article jumped into the lukewarm waters of my mind. 
   Matthew 14 tells of how the disciples, in a fishing boat on the Sea of Galilee, come upon Jesus walking on the water. They are frightened, but Peter boldly requests a chance to join Jesus on the water. Oh, how unlike Peter I am. Peter just steps out there. He sees what he wants and he goes for it. Now he soon gets all wet because of his lack of faith, and his singular focus will get him into trouble quite often. Peter is not perfect, but there is something to be said for the Peters who just jump in. 
   How many of us stand on the edge, with goodness and joy and, dare I say, the very blessings of God before us, but struggle to overcome the initial shock to our system that such faith and movement will bring? How many of us allow silly obstacles like mending fences, or forgiveness, or new circumstances, or being vulnerable, or even possibly failing, keep us from the good that might come? 
   To be honest, this goes far beyond cold water. It is the fear of not knowing. It is wanting to be able to control more than is possible. It is wanting to avoid the uncomfortable. Faith is different. Faith says regardless of what might come, it will be okay. 
   Will you jump in? What is stopping you?
   Grace and Peace, Scott

Wednesday, July 31, 2013

There’s No Place Like Home, By Frances Phillips

   I head back to Athens, Georgia in a little over a week. According to my dear friend, Scott Hagan, a land of heathens and sin awaits me. I happen to disagree, as would 92,746 of my closest friends that will fill Sanford Stadium on Saturdays, this semester. As I begin to pack and get ready to move into my new apartment, I reflect on this summer and all the amazing things that have happened here. I spent this past summer serving the church I love as the Children’s Ministry Intern. I have sewn crooked fair vests, jumped down bouncy slides, bowled a few strikes and danced “The Twist”. I have loved every minute of my busy summer here.
    I could have sewn, jumped, bowled or danced with anyone, but the people who surrounded me this summer have made these activities more enjoyable than I could have imagined. Excited and willing members who love each other and love their children fill Epworth. Epworth people are invested in the lives of each other and desire sincere connections even if it means supervising inflatables or missing part of a movie to divide popcorn and drinks among thirty children and adults. These selfless volunteers continued to amaze me every week. I have made many new friends this summer and have grown in my relationships with old friends. For this, I am thankful.
    This summer I have experienced the real and tangible love of God. Not only did I experience it with Epworth people, but I experienced it through them. Our church rendered over sixty Vacation Bible School volunteers and over thirty Wacky Wednesday volunteers. This is incredible! My confidence in the success of each of our events rested in the security of these devoted and reliable volunteers. Epworth people take care of each other. I have never felt more loved and encouraged than I have this summer. I appreciated all of the positive words and regular phone calls offering service to our ministry and Epworth’s very loved and blessed children.
    Epworth is the place I have called home for over twenty years now. This church family has guided me through childhood and awkward pre-teen years and now leads me into adulthood. I proudly claim a beautiful family that loves and supports each other unconditionally. Thank you for being great, thank you for loving me and each other, but most importantly, thank you for providing the community with a place they can call home. 

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Your Joy

   Andy introduced a new song to the early service this week. The first verse and chorus from "Your Joy", released by Josh Fox earlier this year, says  
In Christ I am a new creation, the old has gone, the new has come
In Christ I'm free, from guilt and shame
I am fully known and fully loved, I am Your joy, Your joy
the one that You love, the apple of Your Sovereign eye
   As I stood singing, letting the words of this new song begin to fit together like a puzzle piece in my mind, a sense of remembrance came up within me. It was that feeling that something you are experiencing now is much like something you have experienced before. As the congregation stood repeating the chorus, I realized that this was the message that Sister Chris shared with me nearly two years ago on my first visit for spiritual direction at the Blessed Trinity Shrine Retreat in Fort Mitchell. It is also what she shared with Epworth last Fall when she preached. We are the joy of God. God delights in us. We are God's beloved.
   When the song was over, Andy said what I was thinking: we don't hear this message enough. We don't hear the plain truth that God loves us and delights in us. We are the apple of God's eye. Some people have never heard that, some have forgotten it and many just misunderstand God's relationship with us. Sister Chris shared with me an excerpt of Henri Nouwen's book, Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World. In the book, Nouwen describes the void that our misunderstanding has created:
Aren't you, like me, hoping that some person, thing, or event will come along to give you that final feeling of inner well-being you desire? Don't you often hope: 'May this book, idea, course, trip, job, country or relationship fulfill my deepest desire.' But as long as you are waiting for that mysterious moment you will go on running helter-skelter, always anxious and restless, always lustful and angry, never fully satisfied. You know that this is the compulsiveness that keeps us going and busy, but at the same time makes us wonder whether we are getting anywhere in the long run. This is the way to spiritual exhaustion and burn-out. This is the way to spiritual death.
   No one thing can satisfy the longing, no single product or moment can fill the void; except for the One who is True. The older I get the more I wonder if maybe this should be the only message we preach and the only melody we sing. God loves us. In Christ I'm free, from guilt and shame. I am fully known and fully loved.
   Grace and Peace, Scott

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Comfort in Uncomfortable Places, by Julie Hagan

   Teenagers are difficult sometimes.  Having worked as a middle school teacher for years, I have had my fair share of dealings with kids who still need structure and discipline, but want that sense of freedom that comes from making their own decisions.  They want to make their own way.  This week, I was able to spend some time with a group of teenagers who fit this description.  They have the knowledge, the charisma and the energy to tackle most anything that comes their way, but they also want the assurance from parents and other adults that someone will be there to catch them if they fall.
   I found myself this past week in unfamiliar territory as I participated in the Youth Mission trip to Cairo, Illinois.  I had been on similar trips in the past, but I was younger then, and seemed to be less aware of my limitations.  Sleeping on the floor and showering at an off-site facility wasn't a big deal back then, but is much less comfortable now.  My body doesn't jump out of bed as easily as it used to, and cold locker room showers don’t seem to make me feel as revived as my shower at home.  There were many aspects of the trip that were a new challenge for me, but watching our teenagers serve God and the community wasn't one of them.  I watched them read and play with children, visit with nursing home patients, pick up garbage, mow grass, have fun with residents of a mental health facility, wash dishes, prepare meals, and learn about the people and history of Cairo.  I watched them introduce some new friends from Kansas and Minnesota to examples of our southern dialect and euphemisms.  They even taught them all about Chick-Fil-A. 
   I watched them worship at the end of each day, expressing the highs and lows of all they had seen and done.  In the actions of serving, they too were served.  We all were.  They were able to see a glimpse of someone else’s life, someone else’s struggles.  For a few days their focus was not on themselves, and it was a blessing to watch them reach out to others.  You would have been proud of our kids.  They didn't complain and they didn't stop working until it was finished.  They represented Epworth and the kingdom of God with grace and kindness.  We found comfort in the uncomfortable places.  May we allow God to use us to bring the same comfort to others.